This is a response to VC 23 Yumi 2 ("Where's the Instructions?")...
I find it interesting that so many people are concerned about the details in raising their children. Give them unconditional love and meet all their physical needs. Pretty simple.
I believe that, like our physical body, the "mind" can heal itself. You cannot blame your parents for "mind" injuries, because most of those will heal just like the scraped knees and elbows.
There certainly are exceptions like physical abuse and the other weirdnesses that surface on the TV news. These are like a spinal injury that keeps one in a wheelchair. The majority of our "mind" injuries will heal, if we stop "picking" at them!